Adult Allies

Adult Allies

On this page, you can download many of the That’s Not Cool campaign materials, including creative files for our TV and print PSAs, information about the research we’ve conducted, and tips on social media outreach. Use the categories below to find the files you need to bring That’s Not Cool to your community!

LEARN

get the facts

BROCHURE: The Amazing Teen Brain: What Every Parent Needs to Know

STUDY: More Than a Quarter of Teens in a Relationship Report Digital Abuse

STUDY: Physical Dating Violence Among High School Students by the CDC

FACT SHEET: Understanding Teen Dating Violence by the CDC

FACT SHEET: Emerging Issues Facing Teens & Tweens

FACT SHEET: The Facts on Tweens, Teens & Dating Violence

RESOURCE: Recognizing Teen Dating Abuse

FACT SHEET: The Connection Between Dating Violence & Unhealthy Behaviors

FACT SHEET: Teen Dating Violence

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Webinars and Podcasts

WEBINAR: Start Strong: Building Healthy Teen Relationships — School and District Policies

WEBINAR: Start Strong: Building Healthy Teen Relationships — Evaluation

WEBINAR: Start Strong: Building Healthy Teen Relationships — In and Out of School Settings

WEBINAR: Start Strong: Building Healthy Teen Relationships — Influencers

WEBINAR: Start Strong: Building Healthy Teen Relationships — Social Marketing

PODCAST: Radio Rookies – Crushed: Teens & Dating Abuse

WEBINAR: Start Strong: Lessons Learned from a Four-Year Initiative to Promote Healthy Relationships & Prevent Teen Dating Violence

WEBINAR: Promoting Healthy Teen Relationships: Preventing Teen Dating Violence

WEBINAR: Teen Dating Violence & Reproductive Coercion

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News

ARTICLE: “When teen dating violence goes online” by ACEs Too High

BLOG: The High Price of Teen Sexting

ARTICLE: “Why Teens Sext” by The Atlantic

ARTICLE: “Teen Sexting Isn’t the Problem–Non-Consensual Forwarding of Photos Is” by Bitch Media

ARTICLE: “Teaching Teenagers About Harassment” by The New York Times
 
 

TEACH

Working With Teens

REPORT: Speaking Teens’ Language: Using Pop Culture as a Teen Dating Violence Prevention Strategy

MATERIALS: How to Talk to Teens About Dating Violence

BLOG: Tips and Resources for Teen Dating Violence Awareness & Prevention Month

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In School

MANUAL: Youth Trauma Guide: Understanding Trauma

POLICY: Stop Abuse for Every (SAFE) Teen Act: Teen Dating Violence is an Education Issue

REPORT: School Climate Reform and Teen Dating Violence

MANUAL: School and District Policies to Increase Student Safety and Improve School Climate

MANUAL: Lessons from Literature: Complete Classroom Manual

REPORT: Promoting Healthy Relationships at School, Teen Dating Violence Prevention: Why Middle School Matters

GUIDELINES: Futures Without Violence Vision for Healthy Relationships Education

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Featured Initiatives

COACHING BOYS INTO MEN: Resources for High School Coaches

START STRONG: Building Healthy Teen Relationships

DATING MATTERS: Strategies to Promote Healthy Teen Relationships
 
 

ORGANIZE

That’s Not Cool website Materials

Print and Share

BROCHURE: National Domestic, Sexual & Dating Violence Resources & Referrals

POSTER: Hanging Out or Hooking Up?

SAFETY CARD: Hanging Out or Hooking Up?

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Social Media

TOOLKIT: TNC Social Media Guide

TOOLKIT: Navigating the Teen Online Space

BLOG: Leveraging Social Media to Talk to Teens About Dating Violence

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Videos

1 is 2 Many: Dating Violence PSA from the White House

Rhode Island Attorney General: Digital Dating Abuse PSA

“The Signs” Teen Dating Violence PSA by Digital Bodega

That’s Not Cool PSA
 
 

HELP

Get Help

GUIDELINES: Effective Responses to Teen Sexting: A Guide for Judges and Other Professionals

REPORT: Why Early Adolescence is an Important Time to Promote Healthy Relationships and Prevent Dating Violence

REPORT: Speaking Teens’ Language: Using Pop Culture as a Teen Dating Violence Prevention Strategy

BROCHURE: National Domestic, Sexual & Dating Violence Resources & Referrals

GUIDELINES: Create a Teen Safety Plan

Give Help

GUIDELINES: Hanging Out or Hooking Up: Clinical Guidelines on Responding to Adolescent Relationship Abuse

MATERIALS: How to Talk to Teens About Dating Violence